2. Put the cat in a room while you play with the others
We have adult cats that love to play, but they’ll hang back when my young adult plays. Oscar is all over the toys and he’s so boisterous that the others don’t get a chance to have fun. So sometimes, I isolate Oscar in the bedroom and play with the others for a bit. He objects for a while because he wants to be in on the action. But I think it’s important for everyone to get the play and interaction they need. Some cats need more or less of this, but every one of my cats needs it in a certain way.